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Posted by Becky on 8/4/2005, 10:57 pm, in reply to "Help with suffering after an affair" Of course, if this is easier said than done, you might want to consider seeing a doctor for an anti-depressant or anti-anxiety med to take the edge off until you can allow your soul to heal. Do you feel it's all talked out between the two of you? I didn't ask my husband for details. I didn't want to know. My pain now is that when he's being critical and unkind he'll compare me to her. Could things be worse for you?
Jill, I know your pain. The only thing I can tell you is that you must live in the present. You must focus on the fact that the affair which you claim hurt him as well occurred while you were separated. You say he's not done it before or since. Focus on that. Sounds like he wants things to work between the two of you and is there for you now. Focus on that, too. Keep your thoughts on the positive and why you love him and be glad for the time you have now and look toward the future.
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