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Posted by Balance By crying her a river, pouring out your heart, telling her you'll always be there for her etc. is only telling her how weak you are without her. What you need is to rebuild yourself from the inside out! Once you've come to the conclusion in your own mind that you are okay being alone, don't need her in any way, shape, form, or fassion, that you can stand on your own two feet, then you will gain your power back. Once this takes place, don't be surprised if she contacts you in some way letting you know how much of a mistake it was to leave you. Things have a funny way of working out like that but you must first regroup your mind/emotions. To do this I would recommend counseling...one on one with a good therapist or even sharing your feelings with someone you trust. It could even be a paster. Prayer is also a good way to rebuild your mind not to mention self-help books. Good luck my friend.
on 8/11/2005, 12:48 pm, in reply to "what's going on?"
Hey man I feel your pain. Since you've already had contact with her and told her how you really feel and by her seeing your neediness, of course she wont take you back. Kinda hard isn't it? For some reason people only gravitate towards power/confidence which isn't what you have at this point.
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