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Posted by jdanell
on 8/18/2005, 10:46 pm, in reply to "Re: Help with suffering after an affair"
my husband had affair with an ex-gf. i knew they were friends and i ws ok with that. but what i didnt know was the affair went on almost our whole marriage. we were married 4 yrs. we just got divorced in june(2 days b4 our 4th anniv) now he wants to get back together.. i wanted a divorce because he wouldnt answer ?s. i dont understand why.. it wsnt just a one time thing.. not that would be easy either but i know how u feel. like i said i NEED answers becaue i feel like i need to know the why's and how's to process this and deal with it to put it to rest. it will never go away either. but i feel answers will make it easier.. i dont want to know what positions they did it or any details like that.i need to know if it was something i did wrong or sould have done differently. or if he really wants to get back together for the right reasons.i think it will show that he has really realized how much it has hurt me and our relationship. also that he will do anything to prove his word in wanting things to work...
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