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Posted by Balance on 8/25/2005, 6:57 pm, in reply to "Am I horrible? I could be...I hope not though." I think what you must first do is reclaim you powere as a man. Don't show weakness nor be weak no matter how hard it may be not to show it. She needs to know that she's not "needed" and who cares if she leaves or not. Yeah it sounds mean and cold hearted but that's the way love or people seem to adore. Don't cry in front of her, never profess your love for her unless you feel confindent in what you're doing.
Okay once again you would rarely see me posting comments on here...why? Because I'm no different the rest of you gusy yet I'm looking at all this is a life lesson.
If you're week in side she would sence it and play on top of that and mess you're whole world up. Women or should I say people gravitate towards power and if you are lacking power of some sort then she would distance herself from you. Start by saying some affirmations such as, "I can do this with out her" I can do this" I am good enought" God loves me" etc.
Don't make yourself into a servant or serpent. But rather into a KING! Be strong and allow other women to adore you beauty and strentght and watch how she change her ways. Just abit of info for your mind my brother...Hell I'm going througth the same thing but I'm learning from my past mistakes....God bless!
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