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Posted by Balance "People gravitate towards power" or for a better way of putting it, "No one wants to be with someone that's needy for them or showing too much interest in them" Does that makes and sense? At first when I first heart this expression I was like yeah right but after trial and even recent error, I have found this to be so true. So to close off this opinion, sweetie, tighten up your grip and strengthen your mind. Don't let him see or sense that you need him or in madly inluv with him in anyway. Even if you two were to get back to gether as lovers there must be "BALANCE" in the relationship. The two lovers shouldn't never feel needy about the other and must compliment eachothers ideas and values. In other words, if one of the two lovers should be weak and always crying and showing more affection towards the other without the other doing the same then the other would sense weakness and feel "all mighty" over you and began to lose interest and suck on you like a vampire....FORREAL! Wait, now I'm not saying waite forever but just until your mind is able to distinguish the two differences meaning "this is only sex, not love". Because making love is when two people are in love and while engadging into eachothers eyes saying the words "baby I love you so much". Did you know that when you do that you are actually releasing a psychic/emotional power towards the other person? That in terms deplets you and make you vunerable to getting hurt cuz you've given your temple your body, your emotions to another that may or may not give it back in return. So again, it's okay to be cool, friends or what ever have you but take a stand cuz a man by nature especially in the west isn't taught how to respect love/intamcy. We men in the west are taught that the more pussy we get then that's one more trophy on our walls for all to see which deeply means we are children like. Very uneducated in the field of true love...how to respect women and their bodies as well. I'm guilty of the same shit so I'm no different but yet I'm learning through trial and error. Don't sleep with him anymore or at least while you still have these feelings for him....be harder meaning if and when he come running back wanting to see you, tell him your busy or have other things much important to attend to. Naturally the thought of you having a date with a man would run across his mind but if it does then so be it. If it is a man you're going out with then be real and say "yes" there is someone else. If not then just talk around the issue without saying yes or no. The point is he needs to know that you are much more than a piece of....well let me not say that word but you get the idea right? You deserves a man that would give you as much love as you give him. I hate to witness men do women like that hell I even get mad at myself when I do it but when I catch myself doing it I call the lady up and apologize for my actions but normally it's her choice to sleep with me so I'm okay in that area...LOL. But good luck and keep us all posted on your situations okay sweetie....
on 8/31/2005, 6:14 am, in reply to "i need advice"
Well my friend I will try to keep this brief as possible cuz sometimes I can get long winded. Hmmm...well sweetie it seems to me that you still like this person and I"m sure he likes you as well. Remember this old saying and NEVER FORGET IT okay?
You're much to smart for that...I can tell it by your words and how you express yourself. I know it's easier said than done trust me...I KNOW...in fact, just read the next topic composed by me and I'll explain my situation. But back to you, if you feel that you are in limbo when around him, then you must hold up on sex/intamacy.
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