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Posted by broken on 9/10/2005, 7:52 pm both of us have been through this conversation before, but I know lately I have called him every weekend to see if he wanted to go somewhere. He has always claimed that if he didn't want to go out, he'd say so. He said at time of the end that it was all his fault that he allowed himself to delve deeper into further levels of love. I still say that maybe I pushed him too much, that my desire to be with him caused the problem. Not Sure What to Do Next
I had a summer fling with a man who was at first very nice and listened to me. We found out we had a lot of things in common. We talked, laughed, did lots of things together. However, when work became difficult for him, I noticed a change in his behavior toward me, and I weathered through it a couple times. Neither one wanted a serious relationship, just spend time together every couple weeks. Recently work has been difficult for him, and he didn't return my phone calls or was very abrupt with me. His prior history was with crazy women/
Then he said (not exact words) that I stirred up attachment feelings in him and he wanted no part of it because he said he couldn't take care of himself, let alone another being. And he hinted that he wanted to do so many things he hasn't gotten a chance to do before. He left the door open for dinner & movie situations, but not intimacy. He does tend to say things he doesn't mean especially if he's under a lot of pressure. But, I know one of his new work buddies has been taking a lot of his time lately, and now the person I was with is delving into boy stuff--gaming and the like.
What happened? Do I give him some space and then test the waters?
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