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Posted by crazy gal
on 10/24/2005, 11:48 pm
My ex fiancee wants to give it another shot. In the past we have both been unfaithful to each other. My infidelity was five yrs ago and for the last five yrs he has been possesively and unreasonably jealous. He has accused me of sleeping around based on a 'feeling'. He has accused me of flirting with a stranger on a plane ( I was unaware of the person ) same story in a bar. He was jealous of the attention my brother in law gives me ( 18 yrs my senior ) jealous of a fellow in my work out class who I smiled and said hello to.
My ex cheated on me about three yrs ago and I don't feel I hold it against him. I trust him to do what is right and I believe the truth will come out if someone is dishonest. However, I often insisted he live by the same rules he applied to me so our relationship had some bad dynamics and we spiraled into this ugly place where we both controlled each other. He says now he understands why he was like that and has apologised and wants to try again. I worry that he will be good at first but when the strain of the relationship occurs he will become jealous and controlling again. What are your thoughts?
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