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Near coming out!

Posted by TH on 4/27/2008, 12:47 pm
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Hi,

I posted here a few months ago, telling that I wanted to come out to my girlfriend who is an ex smoker. To make it quick, I'm 30 and smoke about 5 cigs a week, and nobody knows.

Anyways, last night after dinner we were talking about having kids and how it would change our lives, and everything. I told her how I was scared to regret no to have done some things in my life before becoming a father with all the responsibilities, and that one thing for me, even if it seemed stupid, was smoking.

I couldn't beleive her reaction. She just said GO FOR IT! Wow! We talked about how men had mid-life crisis for not having done things in the right time, and she UNDERSTOOD EVERYTHING! I love her so much!

I won't have to worry about smell on me, no more stress to get caught! I haven't smoked yet, but I plan to do so this week, when she is away, like I always do, but I won't hide anything. What a relief! Some time, I will tell her about my closet smoking. She will probably laugh at me..!

Thanks to all of you who help closet smokers to deal with this. This board is great, really helping.

TH

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Near coming out! - TH 4/27/2008, 12:47 pm
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--Previous Message-- : Hi, : : I posted here a few months ago, telling that : I wanted to come out to my girlfriend who is : an ex smoker. To make it quick, I'm 30 and : smoke about 5 cigs a week, and nobody knows. : : Anyways, last night after dinner we were : talking about having kids and how it would : change our lives, and everything. I told her : how I was scared to regret no to have done : some things in my life before becoming a : father with all the responsibilities, and : that one thing for me, even if it seemed : stupid, was smoking. : : I couldn't beleive her reaction. She just : said GO FOR IT! Wow! We talked about how men : had mid-life crisis for not having done : things in the right time, and she UNDERSTOOD : EVERYTHING! I love her so much! : : I won't have to worry about smell on me, no : more stress to get caught! I haven't smoked : yet, but I plan to do so this week, when she : is away, like I always do, but I won't hide : anything. What a relief! Some time, I will : tell her about my closet smoking. She will : probably laugh at me..! : : Thanks to all of you who help closet smokers : to deal with this. This board is great, : really helping. : : TH :

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