Posted by Kris on 12/29/2008, 10:56 pm, in reply to "Re: Interesting situation"
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Now this is why I was writing here in the first place... I appreciate both of your input. SC46 I agree wholheartedly with what you said. However it is SO difficult to imagine "changing myself" (at least in other people's view) overnight with the flip of a switch. Believe me, if I could have, I would have done it very long ago. As for Johnny, as SC46 said, I do not want to stay like this forever and hope that someday I'll be able to make the leap. Just can't imagine how that's all. It isn't just my Mom... it is everyone. Don't understand why I care so much about what other people think of me, and I don't understand people who don't care about what people think of them. I hate to "make waves" and it is much easier in a day to day way to have things be the same. However, as I said, as time goes on I realize that time is going on. I imagine that this smoking issue is probably more a symptom of some self-confidence issue. To me the smoking is the main issue... but when I think about it, others smoke... so there must be something else huh? Been a long time, and I still can't figure it out.
--Previous Message--
: Hey buddy, I really don't want to be rude, but
: guy you have to decide if you are going to
: grow up and be a man, or run around and hide
: like a little boy hoping your mom won't
: discover your secret. If you just accept the
: fact that you enjoy smoking why should it be
: anyone else's business if smoke or not. One
: the other hand, why should you care what
: anyone else thinks about the fact that you
: enjoy smoking. They will get over it.
: Grow up, Lite up and enjoy the cigarettes
: you pay damn good money for. Again, No
: Offense.
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