Posted by mick d on 5/1/2009, 6:14 am, in reply to "Re: problems"
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You guys are much more understanding than me.
My first thoughts are, Dude you are much to vague and your post lacks the information a person would need to have any idea what you are talking about.
As well, Ian, you really have to work on your ability to communicate clearly - I just sat here and shook my head.
I wouldn't touch these problems 'till you can explain more clearly and with more detail what they are. My distinct impression is that they are far beyond the scope of a few lines description.
It is the LEAST you can do.
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: I totally agree with. I haven't been able to
: put it to words, but you did. Just try to
: accept it.. or better yet accept your
: smoking more, but I understand you.
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: I'm sorry, but I fail to see your problem?
: Either stop smoking completely yourself and
: try to convince her to join you, or chill
: out. Why does it bother you that she smokes
: when you are not? If you have a fetish
: should you not be happy when she smokes?
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: --Previous Message--
: I was wondering if anyone could help or
: identify. I'm a bit of a closet smoker, but
: sometimes freely smoke in public, but am
: careful about with who. I have had a
: longtime fetish. My girlfriend smokes
: occasionally, as do I, but it really bothers
: me when she does, or when she isn't smoking
: with me. Sometimes it bothers me when she
: reaches for one, and I'm not in the mood.
: I'm pretty much tormented by it either way.
: Any advice you can give me? Am I having
: guilt issues? Thanks for the help.
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