A little over a year ago my wife started smoking. I posted this story while it was happening on a different board, but I don't think I posted here. For all you guys and maybe some women who have a smoking fetish, here is our story.
I have been a smoker since I was 14. I am now 37. I love smoking, and yes, I do have a fetish. I married my wife in 2004. She was VERY anti-smoking. She hated me smoking and was always trying to get me to quit. It even got to the point where she would not use her tongue while kissing me because I smoked. About a year and a half ago (I terrible with time frames), we were on the deck and I was smoking. I mentioned to her that I thought a woman smoking was sexy. She thought that was disgusting. Over the next few weeks, I brought it up daily. I would joke around saying she should smoke (sort of joking). I would describe in detail what I thought was sexy about it.......she said I was sick. After a month or so, she mentioned a fantasy that she had......I was not thrilled with what she wanted me to do. I told her that I would try her thing if she smoked a cigarette.....I told her that she did not have to inhale, just puff on it,she agreed.
The next day, I went to the store and bought a pack of VS lights and a pack on VS menthols. That night we went out on the deck and I lit her a regular VS. She was puffing on it and actually said it was not to bad. She said she was not even coughing. I told her it was because she had not inhaled......."how do I do that"? I told her that she would cough and choke if she did.....she then surprised me. She said if she going to try smoking, she mine as well do it all the way. I told her how to inhale and she did, and like all of us, she coughed, eyes watered and she looked as if she was going to die. Her next comment threw me for a loop.
She said she was going to "master this inhaling thing" She tried inhaling again, but she did not inhale as much......a little plum of smoke came out and there was only a slight cough......she did the same thing and again, a plum of smoke, but NO coughing. Then she got the buzz......she looked at me and said, this feels awesome, why didn't you tell me you got buzzed like this. I told her that it goes away after you have been smoking for awhile.
She then decided she was going to smoke just enough to keep the buzz.....maybe a cigarette every other night. I told her she would not be able to keep that up and she insisted that she would.
Its been over a year and my wife is now a full time smoker. She loves smoking VS menthols and we are now a smoking couple. She actually got her friend Vanessa to start smoking again. My wife confessed to me that she was actually attracted to me smoking and that I looked cool when I smoked......she to has a smoking fetish.
For all the men out there that have wondered how to tell their significant other about their smoking fetish........just tell them. be up front and honest. I never thought my wife would be a smoker....I still can not believe she is smoking, but she is, and we have enjoyed smoking with each other ever since. I did have to try her fantasy, but I will not go into what that was.
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