As we move forward we do not dwell on them as much. Can you imagine how bogged down in our own lives we would be if we continued that? They do not expect that of us, so do not feel guilty at all. It does not mean that you do not love her. She is happy to see you advance past your grief and go on with your life. I still think of my daughter but not on the 24/7 time frame like I did at first. I think becoming more emotional after the death of someone who meant so much to us is a given.