Kathy - I know what it's like to be lonely but you have a lot to look forward to. You have your new job and moving into an apt. will keep your mind busy. You can always call your friends and family too. When I feel saddened, I try to do something that I enjoy doing. Even watching a good movie or reading will keep the mind busy but I know it's hard. I will keep you in my prayers that this transition in jobs and relocation will turn out in your best interests. That is a pretty part of CA. My niece lives in Oakland and loves it there. Email me when you get a chance. Love, Gloria