I THINK ITS NORMAL I ASKED MY BOYFRIENDS MOM FOR SOMETHING FROM HIM BUT SHE WAS SPITEFULL AND WASHED IT AFTER I TOLD HER NOT TO. ITS OK THOUGH SHE KEPT EVERYTHING OF HIS BUT NOT OUR LOVE OR MEMORIES SHE CAN TAKE FROM ME... SO YOU ARE NORMAL WANTING TO BE ABLE TO REMEMBER HER....