Yo forum, total noob question incoming. Girlfriend and I wanna try anal more seriously but first couple times were mostly "ow" and "maybe not tonight". We read the usual relax/lube/foreplay stuff but I'm wondering how long it realistically took most of you to go from uncomfortable to actually craving it? Weeks? Months? Any magic moment or toy that flipped the switch? Also curious if guys and girls had different timelines. Appreciate the real talk, thanks in advance.