The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
I do so hope that her feeling somewhat better the day after another surgery bodes well for a good recovery. I hope she stays as long as she can but then maybe she can take care of herself better than they have been. She is, after all, the one who realized that she hadn't gotten her antibiotics in days.