hard for you, Paula. I know that it is hard not to worry, but that is what you are left with. Worrying won't change the situation at all, and evidently, talking to her won't either. Been there. All we can do is hold on for the ride, pray for them, and be a soft place to fall.

Is she ultra religious, or is that his influence? He sounds like an opportunist. Just had the same thing happen near here with a band director. He hasn't had a trial yet.

Of course, he didn't do it. They never do. The prisons are full of innocent women and men. My BIL, whom we lost last year, taught at a University, and he had a class at a nearby prison. He made lots of friends there who didn't do it. Some were even in for murder. Some of the greatest guys in the world to hear him tell it. I guess some people are just born with charisma and can mesmerize people right and left.