The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
I had no idea on this situation. Now I completely understand why you are so upset. She's never lived with the man before and has no idea what she is in for by the sounds of it I'm so sorry Carin is in this situation and even moreso her children.