Next, you will be taking cooking classes to become a chef so that you can just almost live in that beautiful kitchen and nobody would blame you a bit!.

Sounds like a good talk with Ken. I hope that he takes it to heart. My husband got like that for a while after he started slowing down. He tried to take on more to prove he could do it then he got bogged down and sorta just disappeared inside himself. I kept telling him to do what he could, find workarounds for some, and let the rest go. He is finally deciding to do that and is a lot happier. I hope Ken can find a happy place.

My husband found this video to be a real inspiration. Maybe Ken would like it.

https://video.search.yahoo.com/search/video?fr=mcafee&p=toby+keith+on+why+he+wrote+don%27t+let+the+old+man+in&type=E211US714G0#id=1&vid=4c902e5fe635be246750ab4480aa14d9&action=click