The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
My brain is fuzzy from the time away. His primary symptom is fluid build up which could be triggered by his asthma and allergies and a cardiac Stent from awhile ago could weaken his immune system? You guys have certainly been through it! Has he fully retired?
And, you? The cleaning can wait. Take care of you!