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Beverly Posted by Krista on 10/1/2025, 3:35 pm Please check in when you can - been thinking about Murray and you all day.

Hi... Thanks... Updates Posted by Beverly on 10/1/2025, 10:58 pm, in reply to "Beverly" Murray had a rough night. Nancy and I went to see him in the morning. He was still in a tiny ER room sleeping on a gurnney 'bed'. He was still recovering from his surgery. ... throwing up, pain on his right side, and a stomach ache. Ugh not good. A doctor from the pulmonary practice came in and took an ultra sound using a small hand held machine that had a 12 x 12 screen attached to the 'wand' thing. Kind of amazing. It showed that he has fluid between his lung and lung sac. Nancy I ran some errends and had lunch. Afterwards I pooped and threw up at the same time. (nerves, stress and Crohn's) So Nancy went back to ER room. He was miserable. BUT... then a room became available in the acutal hospital. (The angels were singing....) Nancy went up with him and Mike came to the new room after work. It was bright and clean and had space and more. He was happy to be there. The doctor also increased his pain meds. Relief. Nancy left and Mike stayed for a while a. Mike says he was finally starting to feel a little better. And he 'happy as a pig in mud' to be moving the bed into a way that was comfortable. However, The doctor yesterday said that he would be surprised if Murray did not have cancer. Which is heartbreaking sad to us all. We will get biopsy results Thursday or Friday. Nancy is going to stay a couple more days. Tomorrow they plan to remove the liquid from the lung sack in his room. I am so glad.

Will be praying and praying and praying Posted by Krista on 10/2/2025, 7:52 am, in reply to "Hi... Thanks... Updates" I am so glad he is where he is and getting the care and attention required. We are here for you and love you DEEPLY.

(((Beverly))) Posted by Joan on 10/2/2025, 7:16 am, in reply to "Hi... Thanks... Updates" Oh gosh! Time for more prayers! You can count on me to be one of your prayer warriors!

Beverly… Posted by Cindy on 10/2/2025, 1:53 am, in reply to "Hi... Thanks... Updates" I am so sorry to read what an awful time both you and Murray have been having. I am so glad you have Nancy and Mike to help you. Hopefully a good nights rest in a better bed in the hospital coupled with the stronger pain meds and getting rid of that extra fluid will have Murray feeling a lot better in the morning. Love you Beverly and will keep praying.

((Beverly)) Posted by Delta on 10/2/2025, 1:34 am, in reply to "Hi... Thanks... Updates" It must have been a horrible night on a gurney in the ER. Those things are so uncomfortable. No wonder he was hurting so. I am glad that he finally got relief. I hope that the fluid is all that he has when all the test results come back and that removing the fluid will make him feel lots better. I just hate that you are having to go through this but I am glad that you have good support in Mike and Nancy. I wish that I could just give you a big hug.

((Beverly)) Posted by Cindyh on 10/2/2025, 1:20 am, in reply to "Hi... Thanks... Updates" I’m so sorry you are both going through this and both hurting so. I pray he does not get that diagnosis. Please continue to update us and rest when you can and take care of yourself too. Hugs to you

Oh, Beverly. Posted by Paula on 10/1/2025, 11:01 pm, in reply to "Hi... Thanks... Updates" Breaks my heart thinking of the two of you going through this. Glad Nancy and Mike are being so supportive. Love you guys.

Paula. Posted by Beverly on 10/1/2025, 11:05 pm, in reply to "Oh, Beverly. " Thanks so much for your loving thoughts. Love you too.

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