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Update
Posted by Beverly on 10/15/2025, 10:01 pm
I want to thank you all for checking up on me. It's been so busy with Murray checking into rehabilation and family all coming.
Lots of family was mostly good. I am grateful. My sister and Mandy were 'butting' in and second guessing the care from the oncology time. We stopped it as quick as it begain. All in all everyone was very helpful. I was so glad we were together.
Murray is doing pretty well at rehabilitation. He is having pt and ot every other day. He is eating more and drinking more. Working on getting as strong as he can. It was approved that he can stay until October 24th. This is good. It's been wonderful to be so close. He is a mile away from me ... and 1.5 miles away for Mike from Burcham Hills Rehabilition. I live on Burcham Dr.!!!
Now... my hip is in bad shape. I am in lots of pain. I am resting it, iceing, driving aroun the downstairs with my electric cart. I have an appointment with my Primary Care doctor on Friday. It's my yearly main checkup. I will see if I can discuss it with her. The Wednesday next week I have a followup appointment with my ortho. I will ask him what he think I should do. I am taking tylenol, gabapenton, and a muscle relaxent. I having trouble with the gabepenton. I have taken it before... not now I am getting shakey a bit. I cannot take anti imflamatories because of Crohns Desease... It's been difficult. With Murray's health and all this stress... I am having trouble focussing and remembering. I get so confused. (More than usual. )
That's where we are for now.
Thanks, so much caring so much... showing so much love.
So happy to hear that
Posted by Delta on 10/16/2025, 2:05 pm, in reply to "Update "
Murray is cooperating and trying to get as strong as he can. That will be a big boost in how well the chemo works, or so my cousin's doctor told her daughter. He said that attitude and trying to be as healthy as possible were the key to quality of life and possible defeat.
I hope that establishing a routine will help you stress less, allowing your body to heal as well. Sending hugs and prayers.
Beverly
Posted by Cindyh on 10/16/2025, 11:57 am, in reply to "Update "
I’m happy Murray is doing good. Im sorry you aren’t doing well though. I hope you find out something. I’m sorry hon.
Relieved to read about Murray
Posted by Krista on 10/16/2025, 9:05 am, in reply to "Update "
I am glad you have family there with you and that Murray is doing well and that rehab is close. I hope the docs can help YOU out now and get you to a much better pain-free state, sweet lady. We are thinking of you always.
Thank you...
Posted by Joan on 10/16/2025, 6:58 am, in reply to "Update "
for the update! I know it must be difficult to find even a few minutes to post with all that's going on.
I'm happy Murray is doing pretty well at rehab, and he has been approved until October 24th! That's huge!
But, I'm so sorry you're hurting, sweet friend. I wish I could do more, but be assured of my continued thoughts and prayers!
I’m glad…
Posted by Cindy on 10/16/2025, 1:00 am, in reply to "Update "
Murray is adjusting to the rehab facility. Attitude is everything! I hate that you are hurting so. Do you go to a chiropractor? I swear by mine. I mentioned in my post about how my pelvis was out and I got an adjustment that really helped me.
Please know your sisters on here are surrounding you both with love and lifting you up in prayer.
(((((HUGS)))))
Please know you are always on our mind. Also , update
Posted by Paula on 10/15/2025, 11:06 pm, in reply to "Update "
when you can. Don't feel 'obligated.' I think it helps US when we reach out and hope that you are feeling the love.
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