Yes to grabbers, bidet (TG), back brace, adjustable bed. I can do almost all my self care except change the dressing and pick stuff up when I'm showering . I'm afraid to use the grabbers in the shower . Afraid of losing my balance.

It's the animals mostly. I feel helpless when they need something and I can't provide ot, like going in/out, being fed, cat box scooped. I can't reach into the freezer but can use the grabbers for some stuff.