The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
It must have been a horrible night on a gurney in the ER. Those things are so uncomfortable. No wonder he was hurting so. I am glad that he finally got relief. I hope that the fluid is all that he has when all the test results come back and that removing the fluid will make him feel lots better. I just hate that you are having to go through this but I am glad that you have good support in Mike and Nancy. I wish that I could just give you a big hug.