The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
I am so sorry to read what an awful time both you and Murray have been having. I am so glad you have Nancy and Mike to help you. Hopefully a good nights rest in a better bed in the hospital coupled with the stronger pain meds and getting rid of that extra fluid will have Murray feeling a lot better in the morning.