The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
And a bit of a bum. Could go through life never having a regular job. I couldn’t live like that. He never wanted anything to do with Adam and never saw him. He was still in California when I had Adam. After I tried to get child support (it was actually the state as I had a medical card for Adam) he decided to say he wanted Adam 6 months out of the year so he wouldn’t have to pay child support. I got a lawyer and shut that down immediately. Charlie died several years ago. I have no idea how it happened. I just happened to hear about a brother of his dying and when I looked at the brothers obituary it said he was proceeded in death by both parents and one brother, Charles.
Adam was 7 when Ken came into our lives. Ken is the only dad Adam has ever had.