The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"

Paula posted this on Facebook Posted by Cindyh on 6/28/2025, 12:56 am (Copied) More for local friends but too much trouble figuring that out. Had a double laminectomy June 5th and was doing great. Felt better than I have in 3 years. Then, I crashed and learned that my wound was completely infected. Had to have immediate surgery to remove the infection. It has taken days for them to discern the types of infection. I am in a lot of pain and my support system has basically been my 84 year old ex-husband. I'm going home on a wound vac and a picc line for 5 more weeks of antibiotics. Two friends and myself should be able learn how to manage the picc and there's not much to do with the wound vac. Ex will do errands and care for pups and cats. Housekeeper comes every 2 weeks. Some form of home health is being set up. My only relative is my niece in Georgia and she is trying to figure out a way to come for a few days.. I don't know what extra help I need but, if any of you who live by have some ideas and time, message me.

I wish Posted by Cindyh on 6/28/2025, 12:56 am, in reply to "Paula posted this on Facebook " I lived close by and would love to help her

Me too Posted by Beverly on 6/28/2025, 11:45 am, in reply to "I wish" I wish I could help. I told Murray about Paula and he said "Do you think we should go there?" Such a kind thought. I told him it was too far..

I feel so helpless! Posted by Joan on 6/28/2025, 7:08 am, in reply to "I wish" I would love to be able to help sweet Paula!

Me too…. Posted by Cindy on 6/28/2025, 1:18 am, in reply to "I wish" Hate that one of us isn’t closer.

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