The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
I am so sorry that Carin is in such a predicament. I know it must weigh heavily on your mind and heart. Hopefully she will see that he hasn’t changed and will break away from this hold he obviously has on her. Sending you (((((Hugs)))))