The easiest way to avoid regrets is to ask yourself this question, "If not now, when?" It's a powerful way to put life and our decisions about how we spend our time into perspective"
Bill can't do the simplest things without getting all anxious and mean. My bidet toilet seat is coming tomorrow. It's simple enough that U could do it but it calls for movements I have trouble with. It's like a 10 minute job. MAYBE we can do it together. In the past I would literally have to leave the house when he attempted something because just my presence in the environment made him angry when he was that worked up. What a marriage!