This is so much to take in at in a short space of time. It's hard to hear all this from Deborah. I guess we never really know a person. It's sad. Really, a shock. You are a good friend.

And Carin... I hope she really knows who he is now and how it effects everyone. She needs to stay safe from him and get far away and find a way to keep him away. Sometimes people can't see the truth. I am sorry.

I love you Paula... and I am sorry for you to face these things. I am glad you shared.